Double
Identity is all about the two identity which a person shares………………….
Now
come’ on what does that explanation mean…? Is it like Having two different
Identity Cards….like in Aadarcard and a Pancard or a Passport!!?
Double
Identity –in a better way can be all about the two identity
which a person shares ethically and culturally with different cloning emotions
in mind
Emotion
of an Army Personnel who was gunshot by his own companion on the Battle Field
was more wounded by heart than to the fact; he was at the point of Death after
the gunshot. The worse was when he overheard the conversation of his companion
with the one who bribed him to do this act. The dying Army Personnel realized-all
these years of friendship was only for words and not connected with heart and
with a sorrowful heart of a never imagined identity of his companion the Army
Personnel breath his last. A murder- hides behind the identity of an
affectionate or sympathetic person.
Sometimes
it’s difficult to identify what identity one shares. A personality with
different motive in mind do shares a double identity which can be completely
different aspect to understand.
A
Solitude Girl who always stayed behind the kitchen doors and was taught that
her kitchen was her world - one day with a desire to dream big crossed her
borderline and stepped out of those doors into the society for her better
tomorrow. As she stepped out with her Heads-High and a courageous identity she
was basically a distinguished character with a strong sense of
identity with well defined and planned goals which could have been developed
over the last 20 years in solitude.
Identity
comes with continuity and contrast but here the two close friends who ones promised
a forever continuity in their friendship stepped back with time when they
developed an identity - Sense of Self, a completely divergent identity which
they had never ever visualized or assumed off, something which was concealed.
With
passage of time things change so do Identity-at times for good
60years
ago I was a kid, then a boy as time passed I became a Husband - a Business
Tycoon - a Father of two children and today a Grand Dad too. Soon with the law
of nature I will also join back with soil in few years but what will define my
identity will be how I have met my roles, my values, the achievement etc
What’s
the thought that flashed through your mind whenever you hear or read Double
Identity?
-Was
that a Positive vibe or a Negative Vibe?
Most
of the times the two words Double -Identity are put into a negative vibe. We
tag on each other’s behavior when we see them behave in a way that we never
expected it to be and say – “Ohh!!! He has double identity or She has double
face” but Why can’t the same thought be a Positive Vibe, a Positive Vibe as
like that of the Solitude Girl or the 60years Man who inculcated an identity of
Legacy.
Today
as individual we all share not just double identities but multiple identities
-say Roshni is a friend when she is with her friends, a sister with her
siblings, a daughter with her parents, a wife with her husband, a mother with
her kid, a well-wisher with all those who cling to her for help and support but
what differs her identity is that she is not evil to the one who hurt her,
cause harm or discourages her. That’s how our various daily roles can also nurtures
our identities.
Identity
changes with change of roles, circumstances and responsibilities but it’s the
Positive values that should flourish the identity unlike the
negative value possessed by the companion of army personnel who was easily
bribed for few dollars over several years of friendship and the two friends who
was into an identity of egoism and unhealthy competitions. VALUES showcases
your Identity
Values
are the Shine from Within, which flourishes your IDENTITY with Deeds and bring
you Uniqueness and Dignity.
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